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Jade_Delicious
Ghost
 
67 Posts |
 Posted - 06 August 2004 : 4:54:24 PM
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ive never been in a relationship. my dating life has consisted of one nighters/a few fucks then move on. sorry to be blunt  . a few days ago when we docked in rio, i met this guy...and im totaly smitten. sex is great, hes hot, hes family great and rich (so is mine but i dont care) hes such a gentleman too like real old style stuff....open doors, wining and dineing me, dancing, walks me back to my hotel room, didnt try for sex til our 3rd date...*sigh* it scares me.
what if he breaks me heart?
how do you no if this shit is real or not?
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pepper
Lost Soul
United Kingdom
38 Posts |
Posted - 06 August 2004 : 6:31:36 PM
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Follow your heart.
Love hurts, thats what its all about.
Dont worry about if your heart will be broken, just enjoy it while it lasts |
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killingmeslowly
Ghost
Canada
77 Posts |
Posted - 07 August 2004 : 08:58:02 AM
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your family is rich? oh well then, that guy is a bastard - i'm much nicer.. |
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Mazeppa
Zombie
 
USA
894 Posts |
Posted - 07 August 2004 : 09:21:24 AM
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Hmm, well, he might be a perfect gentleman, then again it could be a set up. The only way, unfortunately, to disern weather or naught you can trust someone, is to....trust them. I usually start by lending them something precious, a book.....one I was gonna donate to the library ANY-way.....and see if they return it......the tests get more interesting if they pass that one. Most fail THAT simple test!!!! All I can say is if you seek a life-long deal, you have to trust completely. Sometimes it does naught work out, some times because of doubt. Stay the course, I hope you reach a fine port.
High regards, fair winds,
Captain Robert
mazeppa
From Earth to Sea,
Clouds carry me.
From Sea to Earth,
I turn at birth. |
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Iceheart
Undertaker / Pink Star Lover
 
Australia
1149 Posts |
Posted - 09 August 2004 : 2:26:16 PM
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Turn your emotions off and turn on the charm.
If its a good source of sex take all you can get!
I dont know how to tell if its the so-called "real thing" . I dont think you do til you've been burned a few times. Some say you feel "the spark". Uno, chemistry and shit. But I dunno...........I'd just enjoy it!
Play along with him....I guess only time will tell!
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Heaven bent to take my hand, and lead me thru the fire.
Be the long awaited answer, to a long and painful fight.
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shy
Crypt Keeper
 
Australia
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Posted - 09 August 2004 : 7:52:42 PM
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Originally posted by Jade_Delicious
how do you no if this shit is real or not?[/b]
I would tell you what I think Jade... but then I think my opinion might be a little 'jaded' at the moment
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Jade_Delicious
Ghost
67 Posts |
Posted - 10 August 2004 : 3:51:34 PM
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hahaha Shy - your opinion of men cannot be any more jaded than mine.
that guy, Paco, I saw him schmoozing another woman the day before we left the bastard.
Im so convinced they teach this womanizing shit in school for boys.
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pepper
Lost Soul
United Kingdom
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Posted - 10 August 2004 : 10:53:07 PM
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| not to make light of your situation, but there is a spazzys song called paco doesnt love me. My cousin sent me a copy of their CD |
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Iceheart
Undertaker / Pink Star Lover
Australia
1149 Posts |
Posted - 13 August 2004 : 1:41:22 PM
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Well after seeing your guy schmoozing another lass aren't you glad you didn't wind up serious about him?!
And I think you're right - they MUST teach womanizing in school coz most guys do it as well as they flick a remote control. Its like second nature.
And I do NOT for one minute believe that its human nature to cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband etc.  That is nothing but a fuckin cop out and a lie. Ducks chose a partner and chose it for life.
As far as Im concerned, if you do not love someone enough to remain faithful, you're better off alone. Zero tolerance for cheaters
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Heaven bent to take my hand, and lead me thru the fire.
Be the long awaited answer, to a long and painful fight.
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pepper
Lost Soul
United Kingdom
38 Posts |
Posted - 14 August 2004 : 11:13:48 PM
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Originally posted by Iceheart
And I do NOT for one minute believe that its human nature to cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband etc.
Not human nature, but apparently some anthropologist in the U.S has linked primal instinct to cheating - in men anyway.
Its instinctive for a male of the species (any species) to want to have as many offspring as possible and thus the male mates with as many females as possible.
So theoretically it is instinctual in men, but having said that. We as human beings have developed past the point of beeing instictual creatures, so yes it is a cop out.
But...
It doesnt give any grounds for why women cheat. So I think this theory is 90% bolloks, but interesting none the less.
So i guess it can explain why (some) men freak out and wont forgive a woman for having a shag pal on the side - it jepoardises their genetic hearatige, and why women can in some instances be more forgiving - becasue theirs isnt comprimised....
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Jade_Delicious
Ghost
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Posted - 17 August 2004 : 11:00:07 AM
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men who cheat dont deserve the women they cheat on and vice versa. Its just weak and pathetic to say that cheating is human nature. Thats horseshit. Cheating is a lack of self-control and betrayal to both yourself and your partner. If you make the committment to a person then you take all aspects of that committment to your heart. and fidelity is a key factor of a committed marriage or wahtever.
schmoozer loser. he was the sweetest man i ever met tho but i guess thats why he had half a dozen women. If you can charm a girl why stop with one.
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pepper
Lost Soul
United Kingdom
38 Posts |
Posted - 17 August 2004 : 1:05:10 PM
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Originally posted by Jade_Delicious
men who cheat dont deserve the women they cheat on and vice versa. Its just weak and pathetic to say that cheating is human nature. Thats horseshit. Cheating is a lack of self-control and betrayal to both yourself and your partner. If you make the committment to a person then you take all aspects of that committment to your heart. and fidelity is a key factor of a committed marriage or wahtever.
schmoozer loser. he was the sweetest man i ever met tho but i guess thats why he had half a dozen women. If you can charm a girl why stop with one.
scumbags.
Aggreed. But the impulse to cheat is instinctive apparently.
Cheating sucks, i have been cheated on too many times to count and damn it hurts. But people do it and its a sad fact of life.
I guess we as people need to learn some slef controll and learn how to read other people better
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Iceheart
Undertaker / Pink Star Lover
Australia
1149 Posts |
Posted - 17 August 2004 : 3:05:51 PM
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How did you find out you'd been cheated on pepper?
And did you SLAM the guy (or girl) for being an asshole!!!!
Hay Jade, get a cat. It'll solve all your problems girl!
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Heaven bent to take my hand, and lead me thru the fire.
Be the long awaited answer, to a long and painful fight.
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Jade_Delicious
Ghost
67 Posts |
Posted - 27 August 2004 : 1:44:01 PM
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a cat - hahahaha. i live on a boat! do cats like water? there are plenty of turtles tho...
on the ports in indonesia and malaysia there are always heaps of cats around the docks where they load the fish of the sea boats  i could kidnap one.... |
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Iceheart
Undertaker / Pink Star Lover
Australia
1149 Posts |
Posted - 13 October 2004 : 3:24:59 PM
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Ok, now in a position to invite a one night stand, how does one do so?
And where do you do it?
What do you do? Just walk up to a guy and say "Hi, lets fuck" 
Being single is all too hard............
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Heaven bent to take my hand, and lead me thru the fire.
Be the long awaited answer, to a long and painful fight.
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Baby
DOA
USA
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Posted - 14 October 2004 : 04:15:54 AM
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There is no way of "knowing" anything until the damage is done..... |
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